WE HAVE BEEN TAUGHT TO BE A BOSS BY PLAYING IT LIKE A MAN….
….THE TRUE WAY TO “BOSS IT” IS TO CLAIM IT LIKE A WOMAN!
Boss Witch is not just a fad or a buzz-word title. It is a revolution. A movement rooted in a collective return to the knowledge we were taught to forget.
A revolt against patriarchal constraints, a ‘fuck you’ to the staying small, a devouring messy bite at life and all it has to offer.
Above all, an invitation to build something real and bring about change from within: regenerative wealth, genuine community, activism and a world that honours all bodies, all cycles, and all women.
For years I was taught, told and subsequently believed that the only way for me “to win” at life was to “play it like man”.
In my corporate job I was “too emotional” and “I cared too much” (what a RIDICULOUS statement btw).
I just needed to PUSH more, TRY harder, CONTROL my emotions, MASK my differences and MOULD myself in every way possible to fit a system built for male bodies, whilst all the while burying and subconsciously denying myself access to the superpowers inside of me.
In my natural rhythms and cycles, in my depth of emotional intelligence, in my scared rage, in my bodily wisdom and in my intuition and my creative life force.
This went on for over 30 years… and once I decided to say “fuck this”, to stick my middle finger up to all this, to return back to myself and reclaim the knowledge, wisdom and power that was already there inside me.
I NEVER WANTED TO MOULD MYSELF TO FIT ANYONES ELSES AGENDA AGAIN.
So now I want ALL women to access this part of themselves we have BEEN taught to forget, to regain power not for control but for change, for true deep rooted change that starts from within each and every one of us.
THIS IS THE BOSS WITCH MOVEMENT
BOSS WITCH - MULTIPLE MISSIONS ONE STATEMENT
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✺ FOOD & PLEASURE AS RESISTANCE
To devour your food with pleasure. To eat with your fingers. To order the juicy steak and the bottle of champagne. To dine in the finest places wearing the most gloriously "inappropriate" clothes.
This is the reclamation of our sensual relationship with food — and it is one of the most powerful, most delicious acts of resistance against every diet, every size-zero narrative, every celery-stick silence that was ever forced upon us
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✺ COLLECTIVE POWER: Regenerative Everything
When women are grounded in their power, the ripple is enormous. Collectively, we build regenerative wealth.
We build community. We rebuild strength — in our bodies and in our numbers.
We return to cyclical living, to rhythms that honour the way we were actually made. Not a world designed for privilege. A world designed for everyone
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✺ NO BULLSHIT MAGIC & SPIRITUALITY
Magic doesn't only live in ancient rituals and sacred groves. It lives in the slang of your hometown, in the sayings your nan used, in the dry humour of a Northern woman who sees straight through the bullshit. Geordie magic. Yorkshire magic.
The kind of magic that doesn't take itself too seriously but knows the full weight of its power — and that's exactly why it works.
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✺ DOMINANCE AS A PORTAL
Dominance is not a personality type. It is a doorway. It is the entrance to your own authority, your own desire, your own unshakeable sense of self. When you walk through it — not into control over others, but into command of yourself — everything shifts. Your voice, your presence, your power. It is not an arrival. It is an opening
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✺ WOMEN & OUR WORTH
We were taught how to be good girls. Quiet girls. Grateful girls. And then one day we were expected to be women — powerful, present, whole — with no map for how to get there. A woman's worth was never something we were shown how to measure from the inside. It's time we learned.
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✺ EMPOWERED & EMBODIED
Reclaiming a desire for life, for pleasure, for abundance, for luxury — not as excess, but as presence.
For truth, love, and the warmth of real community around her. The modern day witch is not an escape from the world. She is the most awake person in it
Six-week guided journey
capped at just 13 women
culminating in a four-night luxury ITALIAN retreat ON LAKE COMO.
CONNECTING TO OUR BODIES OUR INTUITION AND OUR dominance, VIA food, pleasure and ritual.
THE JOURNEY: What We Are Exploring
Dominance. The inner witch.
Ritual and sensuality woven into daily life.
The power of style and luxurious living as self-expression.
Our natural rhythms, the magic of photography, and the ancient, irreplaceable knowledge that lives in our bodies and our emotions.
All of it, together, in one transformative experience that will ripple through your life and those around you forever.
TOGETHER IN COVEN
Not alone. Never alone. This work is done in community — in coven.
Alongside fellow women who are ready, who are willing, who are curious. In circle. In connection.
In the kind of togetherness that women were once burned for seeking.
This is what it was always meant to feel like.
THE PROMISE: WHAT WE WILL BUILD
Women and businesses that change things. The death of the good girl, the hyper-independent woman, and playing it like a man.
A reconnection to body, wisdom, cyclical rhythm, and intuition.
Regenerative wealth in women's hands.
Sensuality and pleasure as resistance.
Dominance as the source of real, loving influence.
And nervous systems grounded strong enough to hold everything we are building.
THE RETREAT
You awake to the sights, smells and sounds of the Italian Countryside, as you slowly wake you wonder through the decadent surroundings of our private villa, with the powerful Lake Como as your backdrop.
The day begins with a meeting of minds, hearts and souls as we share our truths in safety and warmth in circle with the other powerhouse, inspirational women sharing this magical experience, entering the day embodied, connected and inspired.
Meanwhile a fresh local breakfast of sensual delicacies is being prepared for you…as you anticipate the depths and pleasures that you will discover within yourself today….
imagine this…
Your boss witch team
ELLE
Elle, Dominatrix, Photographer and Coach, crafting spaces where women can come together to remember all the knowledge and power we were taught to forget. An advocate for the transformative power of the Dominatrix archetype, the transformative power of a photoshoot and the infinite wisdom and knowledge of our bodies and natural cycles.
Founder
ABBIE TAGNEY
Co-facilitator
Abbie is a fierce advocate for remembering our shared humanity and restoring the sense of aliveness that arises from connecting more deeply to ourselves, each other, the Earth, and the Divine. Her work supports people to come home to the limitless potential of who they truly are.
Aetas Deae
Our Retreat Space
A Feminine-led movement dedicated to building a post-patriarchal world rooted in sovereignty, devotion, and erotic embodiment.
From dolce far niente to content creation, Aetas Deaeoffers a contemplative setting for rest, creation, and intentional living
Reflexologist
Sara Chieregato
Sara works with the body as an intelligent, self-regulating system, shaped by experience and capable of repair when met with informed, attentive contact. Her practice is grounded in the belief that the organism and the mind are not problems to be corrected, but realities to be understood, supported, and worked with respectfully.